Community Visionary: Remembering Orval Hawthorne | Daysland
Residents reflect on the Dayslander Motel owner and community-builder’s legacy
The Dayslander Motel has been a landmark in the town of Daysland for decades. But it wasn’t until 2010, when Orval and Nelda Hawthorne purchased the Dayslander, that it truly became an institution.
At first glance, there’s nothing out of the ordinary about the red motel on 49th street. Enter its doors, however, and its charm becomes clear. The Hawthornes' welcoming atmosphere and warm hospitality, shared with locals and visitors alike, have turned the Dayslander into a local gem enjoyed by all.
When Orval Hawthorne passed away in December 2022, it was a loss deeply felt by many, including his wife Nelda, three children, six grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren and countless neighbours and friends. But his legacy is one of such warmth and generosity that Orval will continue to inspire and uplift the town of Daysland for years to come.
By all accounts, Orval was a true community-builder, eager to be a part of whatever was going on in town. He volunteered with the Daysland Business Association for years, helping to organize weekly summer BBQs that brought people together. He also auctioneered and was an Elks member for 44 years, volunteering for worthy national and local causes.
“Orval was a very well respected man in our community,” says Ron and Eilene, residents of Daysland. “He didn’t ask for much but gave a tremendous amount back.”
One of the most cherished things about Orval was his morning coffee tradition. For the past seven years, he would open the motel lobby around 6 am each day, for people to sit and chat over a fresh cup of coffee. All were welcome, including motel guests, but a core group of locals would faithfully attend every morning.
The coffee crowd started each day with conversation, sometimes hours of it. Topics ranged from current events to town gossip, but mostly they would share stories — a universal way of connecting people from all walks of life. These morning coffees have meant the world to those who found community in the Dayslander Motel lobby.
“He didn’t ask for much but gave a tremendous amount back.”
“Orval had a huge heart and made everyone he talked to feel like the most important person in the room,” says Rodney and Darlene, old friends of Orval. “So many great memories of his big smile and his wonderful stories!”
Some of these early risers would even help out around the motel. When snow covered the walkway overnight, one would usually bring a tractor or snow blower the next morning to lend Orval and Nelda a hand in clearing the walks.
When Orval passed, Nelda worried this little morning tradition would falter. But the locals still show up every morning, maintaining the beautiful space Orval held for building community.
“Not quite as early, though,” Nelda laughs. “I could never get going as early as Orval could. But they still come by every morning."
The coffee crowd continues to help out with the motel when Nelda needs it, honouring the example Orval set in helping others whenever possible.
People were drawn to Orval because he was so outgoing and friendly. He greeted everyone with a smile, had a great sense of humour, and had a big heart that showed in everything he did.
“It was always a great day when Orval would come into the branch,” says Adele, Vision Credit Union team member. “Every time he'd walk in, we’d say, ‘Hi Orval, how are you today?’ And he’d always say the same thing: ‘Oh, pretty good for an old guy,’” she laughs. “Then, around town, you’d see him driving in his van, just waving to everyone. He was pretty special.”
Orval Hawthorne’s passing was a loss to the community, but the memories he created and the community spirit he shared will live on. His example of kindness, generosity and warmth will continue to inspire for years to come.
“Orval was such a kind and giving man with the best laugh ever,” says Sherry, a friend of Orval. “We have many fond memories of him. Rest in peace to one of the most generous souls I knew.”
